Mum, good job!
You gave birth to a little human. You have successfully navigated labour or had a serious abdominal surgery (C-section) and now you are embarking on the incredible journey that is motherhood. Among all the excitement and exhaustion, the first postpartum bowel movement is an unacknowledged concern for many new mothers. If the thought of that first poop after giving birth makes you shiver, you're not alone. The concern is genuine, and it is quite normal.
Why is postpartum poop so horrible?
Let's face it, your body has just experienced a major event. Your pelvis and core have been badly wounded and stretched, regardless of whether you gave birth vaginally or via C-section. Some common causes for why having your first bowel movement can be so frightening include the following:
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If you delivered vaginally, you may have sutures from a rip or episiotomy. The idea of straining can be terrifying. Even without stitches, your perineum is likely to be bloated and painful.
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If you delivered via C-section, you will experience pain and discomfort from the abdominal incision. You will not be able to push with your core muscles for a while, as you could hurt yourself or rupture your stitches.
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Even if it leads to a C-section, pushing during labour may exacerbate haemorrhoids. Naturally occurring haemorrhoids might happen during pregnancy. Pooping can be very uncomfortable due to these swollen veins.
- If your abdominal muscles appear weak or nonexistent, it could be challenging to provide the necessary pressure. Changes in the sensation of the pelvic nerve may also occur temporarily. Mothers who have had caesarean sections have experienced extreme weakness and difficulty moving their abdominal muscles.
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Due to hormonal changes, iron supplements, painkillers (particularly opioids), and dehydration during labour, constipation can make it more difficult to pass stool. Due to the effects of anaesthesia and abdominal surgery slowing down bowel function, this is especially frequent following a C-section.
- It might be unnerving to feel as though you have no control over your body after the traumatic experience of childbirth, even if it's only for a bowel movement.
Reducing fear and discomfort
You can take a lot of proactive measures to make your first postpartum poop (and the subsequent ones) considerably easier, even though the worry is real.
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The importance of staying hydrated cannot be overstated! Your stool will be softer and easier to pass if you drink water. Carry a bottle of water with you and drink from it all day.
- Include foods high in fibre in your diet. Consider whole grains, legumes, fruits, and vegetables. Your doctor may suggest a fibre supplement if your diet isn't sufficient.
- Your doctor will probably suggest or prescribe a stool softener rather than a laxative. By pulling water into the stool, these make it softer and less difficult to pass without straining. Beginning to take them while in the hospital is essential for preventing firm stools, particularly following a C-section.
- Don't push yourself. Go when you're tempted. Repressing it can exacerbate constipation.
- Using perineal bottle (Peri Bottle) for vaginal deliveries. During a bowel movement, gently spritz your perineum with warm water. Urine and stool may become less bothersome as a result of this, and the warm water may also have calming effects.
- Use mild pressure to support the incision. If given birth vaginally, you can cover your perineum with a wad of toilet paper or a clean pad and gently push. This might provide one a feeling of safety and assistance. For mothers who have had a C-section, it is very important, while you bear down, gently put a cushion or a rolled-up towel onto your incision. This lessens the tension associated with damaging your incision by providing counter-pressure and support.
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Optimise your position. For many new moms, this is where a toilet stool (like the one we provide!) may make all the difference. A more natural, relaxed, and thorough evacuation is made possible by elevating your feet when using the loo, which alters the angle of your rectum. This lowers the need for strain and simulates a squatting position, which is physiologically optimum for urinating. This position can help C-section women move stool more easily and with less force from their abdominal muscles.
- Calm down. It's easier said than done, we realise! On the other hand, strain and stress can make your pelvic floor tight. Aim for deep breathing techniques both prior to and during your bowel movement.
- Don't rush! Take your time and be alone.
- Gentle movement! Walking lightly, when your doctor gives the all-clear, can help get your digestive system working and encourage bowel movement, which is particularly crucial following a C-section.
- Consult your physician. Do not be afraid to consult your physician if you are suffering from extreme pain, prolonged constipation, or no bowel movement after a few days. They are able to provide more guidance and answers.
You're capable, Mama.
Although the initial postpartum poop is a challenge, it is only brief. Regardless of whether you had a C-section or a vaginal birth, keep in mind that your body is extraordinary at healing and recuperating. You will be able to handle this typical postpartum difficulty more easily and confidently if you take these proactive measures and practise self-compassion. Also, keep in mind that purchasing equipment that supports your body's natural processes—such as a well-made toilet stool—can have a surprisingly positive impact on your journey towards digestive health and postpartum comfort. If you can overcome childbirth, you can overcome this as well!